The Malaysian Phenomenon: “On The Way” But Still Far Off
Saying “on the way” might be a way to express the intention of leaving soon, even if they haven’t left yet.
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Have you ever experienced the confusion of a Malaysian friend telling you they’re “on the way” when they’re still far off?
If so, you’re not alone! Welcome to the quirky world of Malaysian timekeeping, where “on the way” takes on a new meaning.
In Malaysia, time seems to have a mind of its own.
Deadlines and appointments are more like gentle suggestions rather than strict commitments.
So, when a Malaysian tells you they’re “on the way,” it’s best to take it with a pinch of humour and a generous dose of patience.
This is what I thought when I waited too long for team #Malaysia 🇲🇾 to appear in #TokyoOlympics opening ceremony 😅
— Hami Mohsin (@HamiMohsin) July 27, 2021
*"On the way" is a popular excuse in Malaysia when you are late for any arrangement* #komikmalaysia #komik #Olympics #Olympics2021 pic.twitter.com/kf6YOnjEcc
The relaxed attitude Malaysians have towards time
Picture this: You’re waiting for your friend at a local mamak stall, eagerly anticipating a piping hot plate of nasi lemak.
You send them a quick message asking for an ETA, and they casually reply, “On the way!”
You settle into your seat, sipping your teh tarik, only to realize that “on the way” could mean anything from five minutes to half an hour or more.
Ada tiga jenis "On the way"
— Shabil Shahrin (@sheikhmshabil) October 12, 2021
1. On the way : Dh mmg dlm perjalanan
2. On the way : Baru nak keluar rumah
3 On the way : Baru bangun tido
But fear not! This Malaysian phenomenon is not a deliberate attempt to keep you waiting.
It’s a cultural quirk reflecting Malaysians’ relaxed attitude towards time.
Deadlines are often seen as mere suggestions rather than strict obligations.
English: On the way.
— Captern (@MohdAsyraf__) August 29, 2019
Malay: Baru bangun tidur, tengah mandi, gosok gigi, mekap, keringkan rambut, pakai kasut, keluar rumah sambil nyanyi. https://t.co/qs5CFYw05Q
It’s all about going with the flow and embracing the unexpected twists and turns that life throws you.
One possible explanation for this unique behaviour is the diverse linguistic landscape of Malaysia.
Malaysians effortlessly switch between different languages and dialects in their daily conversations.
So, when they say they’re “on the way,” it might be a playful blend of evolved languages.
Taking a break from the fast-paced world
In the grand scheme of things, this lighthearted approach to timekeeping adds a touch of charm to the Malaysian lifestyle.
It reminds us to slow down, enjoy the journey, and not take everything too seriously.
After all, life is full of surprises, and sometimes being fashionably late can lead to unexpected adventures and memorable experiences.
So, the next time a Malaysian friend tells you they’re “on the way” or “just around the corner”, but you think they’re still far off, it’s better to ask where they are.
Remember, in Malaysia, time is measured not in minutes and seconds but in laughter, camaraderie, and shared moments.
So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the delightful chaos of being “on the way” in this wonderfully unique corner of the world we call Malaysia!
as usual la, Malaysia always late for work la, wedding dinners la, votes counting la, now ambik sumpah also. what we can say is, "traffic jam la!" #GE14
— hui_chi (@hui_chi) May 10, 2018
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