28-Year-Old Feels Down And Depressed, Seeks Words Of Encouragement
The man feels miserable when comparing himself to his peers.
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A 28-year-old man lamented that he had no success in his career and no money.
His health is also not good, making him doubt his life and future.
The man recently sent a message for help to TV host and radio DJ Fedtri Yahya, hoping to get motivation from the host and netizens.
According to a Twitter post by Fedtri, the man revealed that his contract with the company had just expired, and he was not re-employed.
Saudara ini memerlukan kata-kata semangat kita semua 🤲 pic.twitter.com/XNs2vkKlmO
— Fedtri Yahya (@fedtriyahya) February 22, 2023
He is still looking for a new job but has been looking for a long time and has yet to find one.
At the same time, he had to go to the hospital for follow-up visits every month.
It made him worry about the impact of taking leave every month at his new job.
The man also faced financial hardship due to unemployment and health problems.
I am already 28 years old, my career has not yet stabilized, and my friends around me have already lived a good life. Every time I see my family, relatives and friends, I feel very embarrassed because my academic performance was poor when I was studying.
The 28-year-old man on his predicament.
Because of all the misfortune, he prays to God to give him strength daily so that he can return to normal life as soon as possible.
The man’s sad tale has attracted the attention of many netizens, and everyone has left messages to cheer him up and persuade him not to give up.
A netizen suggested that the man enrols in the digital economy to become a freelancer and work from home.
Stop Comparing Yourself With Your Peers
Comparing yourself with others can be harmful for several reasons:
- It can lead to low self-esteem: When you constantly compare yourself with others, you may feel inadequate or inferior, lowering your self-esteem and self-confidence.
- It can create unrealistic expectations: Comparing yourself with others can set unrealistic expectations for yourself, which can be difficult to achieve and leave you disappointed.
- It can be demotivating: When you see others achieving things you have not yet accomplished, it can be demotivating and make you feel like giving up.
- It can cause jealousy and resentment: Constantly comparing yourself with others can lead to feelings of jealousy and resentment towards those who have achieved more than you have.
- It can distract you from your goals: Focusing too much on what others are doing can distract you from your goals and prevent you from achieving the important things you need.
Remember that everyone has their unique journey in life, and comparing yourself with others will only lead to negative emotions and outcomes.
Instead, focus on your progress and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may be.
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